In 1 Samuel 13:14, the prophet Samuel delivers a powerful message to King Saul:
“The Lord has sought out a man after His own heart.”
That man was David — a young shepherd boy who, despite his imperfections, would grow into one of Israel’s greatest kings.
David wasn’t perfect, but he pursued God with all his heart.
For us today, the invitation still stands:
God is looking for men and women who seek His heart — not just His blessings.
So how can we find the heart of God?
Here are five keys that will help you grow deeper in your relationship with Him:
1. Pursue Relationship Over Religion
David’s story shows us that God values relationship far more than outward rituals.
David longed for God’s presence. He worshiped, prayed, and spoke openly with the Lord through every season of life.
For us:
- Spend time with God daily — not to fulfill an obligation, but to deepen a relationship.
- Talk with Him. Worship Him. Listen for His voice.
- Make your walk with God a living, breathing friendship.
“You will seek Me and find Me when you seek Me with all your heart.” — Jeremiah 29:13
2. Keep a Soft Heart and Be Quick to Repent
David’s greatness wasn’t in being flawless — it was in being tender-hearted.
When confronted with his sin, he didn’t shift blame or defend himself. He repented with humility and sincerity.
For us:
- Keep your heart soft toward God.
- When conviction comes, don’t harden your heart — run quickly back to Him.
- Choose humility and honesty every time.
“Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me.” — Psalm 51:10
3. Love What God Loves
David delighted in the Word of God and sought to live by His ways.
He loved justice, mercy, worship, and truth — the things that mattered to God’s heart.
For us:
- Let God’s values shape your values.
- Love what He loves: kindness, integrity, compassion, holiness.
- Let His Word renew your mind and direct your steps.
“I delight to do Your will, O my God; Your law is within my heart.” — Psalm 40:8
4. Trust God Through Every Season
David knew what it meant to wait, to suffer, and to be misunderstood.
But even in the dark seasons, he trusted God’s goodness and timing.
For us:
- Anchor your trust in God’s faithfulness, not your circumstances.
- Believe that He is working, even when you can’t see it yet.
- Keep following Him — step by step — even in uncertainty.
“The Lord is my Shepherd; I shall not want.” — Psalm 23:1
5. Live for God’s Glory, Not Your Own
David wasn’t chasing his own fame; he wanted God’s name to be honored.
Whether slaying Goliath or worshiping in the temple courts, David lived to magnify the Lord.
For us:
- Make God’s glory your greatest goal.
- Lay aside self-promotion and pride.
- Let your life reflect His greatness, not your own.
“Not to us, O Lord, not to us, but to Your name be the glory.” — Psalm 115:1
Final Thoughts
Finding the heart of God isn’t about living a perfect life — it’s about living a pursuing life.
A heart after God’s heart is one that seeks, trusts, loves, repents, and glorifies Him daily.
Lord, help us to find Your heart — and never stop seeking You.
Amen.
If this blog encouraged you, feel free to share it with someone else who is seeking God’s heart too. Let’s keep growing together!
– Mark
